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The Lake
October 20, 2017
By Mike Ashby

“The Lake.” It’s a term many of us are familiar with from our childhood. Growing up in Bonners Ferry in the 50s and 60s meant that during the summer, you and your family were going to be spending time at “The Lake.”

Never mind which lake it was, if someone said “We’re going to ‘The Lake,’” everyone in the family knew which lake they were referring to.

For my family, when dad said we were going to spend the week at the lake, that meant we were going to Pend Oreille Lake and stay at a campground called Sam Owen. This lovely campground was donated to the people of America by Mr. and Mrs. Sam Owen. Dad always said the Owen’s had known there would be need of public access to the big lake, so they donated several acres of their farm ground in perpetuity to the U.S. government to be used as a campground and lake access.

Some of the more fortunate among us had either summer cabins or even permanent homes on a lake.

For the rest of us, camping in tents and eating marshmallows at 11 o’clock at night under a full moon with gentle waves lapping at the shore remain some of our fondest memories. Of course, floating all day on either an inner tube or air mattress (which usually leaked), or fishing for kokanee and trout would remain high on the list of reminiscences.

And who can forget the first time you ever went skinny dipping in “The Lake?”

The tents we had in that era were not the flimsy easy-to-put-up affairs we use today. Those things were made out of heavy, really heavy, canvas and coated in an awful smelling substance that was supposed to make the thing water proof.

Ya, right!

The first time it rained and you touched the canvas, water would drip from that spot. I know I certainly learned a few new words when Dad and Mom would go to putting that tent up.

It had a frame of small slats of wood that had to be put together outside and then stuck inside the tent and installed in the correct spot on the canvas. Since it was positively black in there, one of them would hold a flashlight while the other tried to get the thing together.

Asking what some of the words they were using meant proved to be the wrong question to ask at that time. Most of the time it was suggested we youth go someplace else. More or less in that language.

Starting your day at the lake, you would be roused by birds singing to you at 4 a.m. This was followed by trying to get to the camp fire wearing your sleeping bag as a robe. Your trip would be rewarded with the rich, pungent smell of a breakfast of delightful pancakes, bacon, eggs and hot chocolate.

As you enjoyed your breakfast, you would watch in awe as the resident bald eagle that lived in a tall snag would be busy catching his feast. After breakfast, it was a whole day of just plain goofing off.

What a neat thing for a kid to watch an adult doing!

At some point, someone with a boat capable of pulling water skiers would show up. The thrill of getting up on the skis for the first time was unforgettable! As the boat slowly (you thought you were going a gazillion miles an hour) pulled you around, your legs bent almost in half and your arms straight out in front of you, you fervently hoped “Mom” was watching.

But when you fell, and you always did, those old life preservers, which were nothing more than a ring of Styrofoam around your middle, would pitch you face forward into the water. You would do your best to stay upright while the boat circled you, with your friends yelling at you to “catch the rope, catch the rope.”

You were desperately trying not to drown and all they could do was yell at you to catch a stupid rope.

Night times in camp at the lake were a time of entertainment as well. Who can forget an adult trying to get a Coleman lantern or Coleman stove lit?

Those things ran on a fuel called "white gas." Dad would get a gallon of the stuff at Lindsay Helmer before we left, with strict instructions to me to “leave this dang stuff alone.” Once at camp, the lantern and the stove would be filled with this malodourous liquid. At that point, a small pump would be jerked back and forth for about an hour.

Once pressure was gained in the lantern, a small knob was turned, at which time a loud hiss could be heard.

A lit match would then be placed inside the glass covering of said lantern which would then result in a loud, very loud, whoosh. Maybe the thing would light, and maybe it would not.

If not, another hour of pumping would commence.

Eventually the thing would light, but that noticeable hiss was always there, and somebody spent most of their evening pumping away on the device. The same sort of scenario would be followed for the Coleman stove, but the flare-ups from that produced a whole horde of new words.

Seems like camping contributed significantly to my vocabulary.

Come the evening, we would gather around a campfire while an uncle or auntie played a musical instrument. Of course the preferred instruments would be either a guitar or harmonica.

Learning new songs was always memorable. “This Land is Your Land,” “Kumbayah,” “Home on the Range,” “Swing Low Sweet Chariot,”” Michael Row the Boat Ashore” and so many others -- all part of a day’s experience of being at "The Lake."

Perhaps the most memorable remembrance of your stay at the lake would be how many times you could or would "fall in love." Every summer there seemed to be another special someone who would steal your heart.

For some inexplicable reason, they always seemed to live far away or even in a foreign country.

There were always moments of doubt that the person would notice you, but then a smile and a hello, and “You’re new here, aren’t you?” and a new romance would be launched. You would sneak out of your tent at night for a moonlit swim or walk with your newfound love, and life just never, ever, could get any better.

Pledging your love forever, you would part at the end of summer, planning to write at least seven letters every day. But of course you never did, and soon another season would begin at “The Lake” and the cycle would begin again.

Some of life’s most important lessons took place at "The Lake."

How to flip a pancake so it landed square back on the griddle and not half on the Coleman stove. How to toast a marshmallow just so, lightly browned, and not behaving as if it were a blessed blowtorch designed to burn off your eyebrows while you were trying to blow it out.

How to win a game of cards while avoiding the hordes of flying critters hovering about the lantern. How to find a bush that no one could see you in because you simply could not make it to the outhouse in the dark. How to put on a wet swimming suit. How to tell your parents that pushing your sister into the lake before she got her swimsuit on was an accident. How the wonderful preventative effects of suntan lotion should be applied before one floats all day on an air mattress in the hot August sun. How to explain to your father that you really did not mean to drop his favorite pole in the deepest part of the lake.

How to behave as if the ghost stories being told around the campfire were just that — stories — and you were only quivering because you were cold.

Last, but by no means the least, one must open the can of beans prior to placing it in the fire to warm.

Sometimes the memories of those days can be triggered by a smell (burnt toast, an outhouse aroma, a blister from a flaming ‘mallow) or maybe even an innocent comment; “You sure you know how to paddle a canoe?” A week at the lake was many things to us boomers.

Some memories have been lost in the fog of time, but one thing is for certain: Introducing today’s youth to the lake is just as important as it was when someone took us there when we were kids. If there are young folk in your life —  nieces, nephews, cousins, church kids —  take them with you and introduce them to God’s creation.

They will never forget those moments and your days will be blessed with many more memories of “The Lake.”
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